Building Interpersonal Communication Skills
Negotiating Theory and Practice
1) Definition
2) Why plan for negotiation?
3) Steps in Negotiation Planning
4) Negotiation Stages
5) Situational Influence Model
6) General Tactical Orientation
1) Definition:
A process wherein:
· 2 or more parties with common & conflicting vested
interests
· come together with intention
· to put forward & discuss explicit proposals
· for the purpose of reaching agreement
2) Why plan for negotiation?
Need:
· High quality agreements
· Lasting agreements
· Good relationship
· Efficient use of time
3) Steps in Negotiation Planning
Assess Your position AND the other Parties'
· Needs
· Objectives
· Currencies
· Power
· Strategy
· General Tactical Orientation
4) Negotiation Stages
A) Preliminary
Push
Persuading - Proposing, Reasoning
Asserting - State expectations, Evaluate, Incentives &
Pressures
Pull
Bridging - Involving & Supporting, Listening, Disclosing
Attracting - Visioning, Finding Common Ground
Moving Away
Disengaging
Avoiding
6) General Tactical Orientation
How important is the relationship?
What is the level of trust between the parties?
General Tactical Orientation: Negotiation
SOFT:
· Present moderately high demands
· Present opening position that indicates flexibility (Persuading
vs. Asserting)
· Be active in exploring other parties needs and available
currencies.
· Be patient
· Show optimism about reaching an acceptable agreement
HARD:
· Negotiate ground rules to protect your interests
· Present high demands
· Present opening position as inflexible (Assert rather than
Persuade)
· Be active in exploring other parties needs and currencies from
the perspective of winning.
· Make concessions reluctantly
· Exert deadline pressure
General Tactical Orientation: Negotiation
OPEN:
· Be willing to reveal your true: authority, real deadlines,
worries and concerns
· Be willing to disclose your true needs including most basic need
· Indicate currencies you have available and your assumptions about
their value
· Disclose actual value you place on others' currencies
CLOSED:
· Reveal needs cautiously
· Disguise your basic need
· Be cautious about revealing your most costly and expensive
alternative currencies
· Do not readily reveal the actual value you place on others'
currencies
· Disguise your settlement position